When is a name declaration actually necessary?
A name declaration is required if the parents do not share a married name. This applies to unmarried parents as well as to married couples who chose not to adopt a common married name when they married and kept their previous names. If, on the other hand, the parents do have a married name, the child receives it automatically under § 1616 BGB, without any declaration being necessary.
Can my child be given a compound surname since 2025?
Yes. Since 1 May 2025, § 1617 (1) BGB expressly permits a compound surname made up of both parents' family names, joined by a hyphen. The previous legal position, under which a child could bear only the name of one parent, no longer applies. Such a compound surname is also possible where there is sole custody, under § 1617a (2) BGB, if the other parent consents.
What happens if we do not agree within one month?
If parents with joint custody fail to make a determination within one month, the child receives, by operation of law under § 1617 (4) BGB, a compound surname made up of both parents' family names, listed alphabetically and joined by a hyphen. The previously common claim that the child then automatically takes the mother's name has been incorrect since 1 May 2025. On the application of either parent, the family court can transfer the right to determine the name to one parent.
What name does the child get where there is sole custody?
If only one parent has parental custody, the child receives, under § 1617a (1) BGB, the family name that parent bears at the time of birth. The parent with custody can later, under § 1617a (2) BGB, also give the child the other parent's name or a compound surname formed from both family names. This requires the consent of the other parent, and once the child has reached the age of five, they must also consent personally.
Can we change the name of a child born before May 2025 retrospectively?
Yes, the reform act provides for a transitional rule: for children whose birth name was determined before 1 May 2025, a subsequent new determination as a compound surname from both parents' family names is possible. This declaration is also made at the Standesamt and must be publicly certified. Once the child has reached the age of five, their consent is required; ask the competent Standesamt in advance about the exact requirements.
Must both parents attend in person?
Where there is joint parental custody, both parents must, as a rule, make the declaration, because the right to determine the name belongs to both of them. If one parent is unable to attend, they can have their declaration publicly certified in advance at another Standesamt, before a notary, or at a German mission abroad, and send it in. A declaration made after the birth has been recorded requires public certification under § 1617 (3) BGB in any event.
What does the name declaration cost?
The fee is set locally and, in practice, ranges between €25 and €47. Berlin charges €25.00, Munich €30, or €60 for several declarations in one recording, and Potsdam €47.00. Where applicable, the fee for a new birth certificate is added on top, which likewise varies by local authority.
Does the determined name also apply to further children?
Yes. Under § 1617 (5) BGB, the birth name determined by the parents also extends to any further children they have together. Siblings from the same parental relationship must therefore bear the same birth name; a different determination for a second child is not possible. Consider your choice carefully, therefore, as it affects the whole family.